why? because it's late!

[jinian]

Name: Kylee
Birthdate: 18 Feb 1977
Hair: Probably medium brown by now. It's hard to sort out leftover self-image from reality sometimes. More gray than most people my age.
Eyes: Blue
Height: 5'8"-ish
Gender: Variable, generally pretty girly.
How many true relationships have you had? Let's say that true's freight this time is "mutually committed" and "sexual", because it's easier that way. That would be four. Without "sexual" it's a lot harder to define boundaries: more than four.
Have you ever been in love? Yes.
What's your idea of a perfect date? Being with a person whose company I enjoy. Going to the zoo has historically been pretty good. Not so much restaurants, since they're often noisy and full of humans, and not so much watching things unless maybe at home with remarks. Subtitles are best for that.
Where's your favorite place to be kissed? Well, it's when I'm just doing other things, so I guess that's usually in the kitchen.
How many sexual partners have you had? By my definition of sex, I think nine.
How many people have you kissed? What kind of kissing?
Do you like to make the first move? People generally happen to me, from my point of view, so the question doesn't make sense. I try to tell people what's going on with me if it's important. That might be a move.
Are you a snuggler? With lovers, definitely. With friends, some. A continuum exists.
Do you kiss on the first date? Not so much experience with formal dates, but the available sample set indicates yes.
Where is the best place you've ever hooked up? The laundry room at college was pretty funny.
Do you consider yourself to be romantic? Sometimes.
Are you an angel or a devil in the sack? Too much unexplained connotation. Does not compute.
Would you ever pay someone for sex? I don't think so. I don't have anything against the idea for other people, but sex with someone who isn't interested in me without money playing a part doesn't appeal to me.
Would you ever let someone pay YOU for sex? As an isolated instance, maybe, but that seems unlikely to come up. If it's not isolated, that implies an entire lifestyle in which I have to interact with customers, ugh.
Do you keep your eyes open when you kiss? Not usually.
What was your most embarrassing sexual moment? As is usual, my main memories are of things that annoyed me. It was damned embarrassing when my high-school boyfriend wouldn't zip across the hall to my room when my parents came home way early; there was really not a way to pretend he'd been showering for some legitimate reason. Still want to smack his head for that sometimes. (I do see him occasionally around town, and have resisted so far.)
Have your parents ever caught you in a compromising position? See above. It was only my mom who caught us, and she seemed certain that Dad should never, ever catch me doing anything like that, on pain of badness.
Have you ever performed a striptease? Not really.
How about a lapdance? Don't think so.
Have you ever received a lapdance? Not as such.
Do you like sexual contact? Of course, when I want to have some.
Are you straight, gay or bi? Bi.
Have you ever made out with a member of the opposite sex? Yes.
I add:
Have you ever made out with a member of the same sex? Yes.
Are you a giver or a taker? Depends on my mood. Sometimes quite happy to take, reciprocity usually great fun, occasionally only giving will do.
What do you look for in a girlfriend/boyfriend? Intelligence, mainly with words and math and science. Attractiveness-to-me, which partakes of lots of things. (Waist-to-hip ratio is highly relevant in most cases.) Willingness to be around cats. Durability to certain kinds of teasing. Silliness.
Do you think you've met the person you'll spend the rest of your life with? I certainly hope to have some of my current and former close people around me forever.
Do you know who your bridesmaids and groomsmen would be? The chances of me wanting any are fairly small at this time.
Have you ever regretted a hook-up? (Stole firecat's answer:) To the point of not wanting to do that kind of hook-up again, yes. To the point of wishing I hadn't had that experience, no.
Have you ever cheated on a significant other? Yes, and I didn't like it at all. Not doing that again.
Have you ever hooked-up with someone already in a relationship? Yes.
Have you ever cried over a member of the opposite sex someone you dated or wanted to date? Yes.
Have you ever had your heart broken? I've been pretty hurt, but I don't know where the line is for this.
Have you ever had a pregnancy scare? At various times I have taken home pregnancy tests, considered my options if I were pregnant, and taken emergency contraception. My idea of a "pregnancy scare" is that girl and boy get all riled up and tail-puffed and oh-my-god-what-if, and that hasn't happened.
Would you date or marry someone if your parents didn't accept them? They've disliked and disapproved of some of my relationships, but refusing to accept my choice to date someone isn't something I can see them doing.
How about if your friends didn't accept them? It would make things awkward. Some things are awkward now. *shrug*
What's the worst relationship you ever had? The one where we had completely different ideas of what the relationship was pretty much sucked.
Have you ever done anything sexual while on the road? Yes.
Would you kiss someone if you didn't love them? Sure. How else do you know whether you want to shag them?
Who told you all about sex? Our Bodies, Ourselves, which pretty much assumed one had had sex but still said some about it. The Passionate Teacher, which was terribly cliched porn. (This one educated several of us about bad porn when I filched it to read on the school bus. Later, I got caught with it. Oops.) Those technical books about puberty and body parts. I'm afraid Dragonquest is in there too; the library didn't have the much healthier Dragondrums sex scene.
Are you always horny? Not really. This whole menstrual cycle thing is awfully interesting.
Are you a flirt? Don't think so.
Are you a tease? I hope I only do it on purpose.
Do you prefer to chase or BE chased? No.
Do you prefer morning or evening hook-ups? So coy. My preference depends on the circumstances.
Have you ever pulled an all-nighter with a member of the opposite sex someone you wanted to fuck, and woke up in each others arms? Yes.
How old were you at the age of your first kiss? Define "first kiss". I kissed someone because he was my boyfriend and I liked him when I was ten or eleven. Twisted by romance novels, I stole my boyfriend's gum and told him to come and get it when I was about thirteen. I actually discovered the point of kissing when I was sixteen.
How old were you when you lost your virginity? Seventeen.
Do you sometimes wish you could change that? No. It would've been interesting to do it sooner, I guess. Oh, okay, sometimes I wish I'd tried harder to jump my friend K when I was sixteen, but he would have felt so guilty about it if we'd done anything.
Do you enjoy being in a relationship? Of course. Well, I enjoy being in any relationship I want to maintain, which is a little tautological given that I have few qualms about bailing out of bad situations now.
Are you currently in one? Yes, taking "relationship" as for "true" back at the beginning, I am in exactly one.
Has anyone ever fallen in love with you? So I am told. I can't know for sure whether people mean what I would mean.
Have you ever said "I love you" and not meant it? I haven't deceived anyone on purpose. My perception of my feelings has been known to change quickly.
Are you "noisy" when you get heated? I think yes. I'm not usually paying attention. No neighbors have complained, but at least once I've been surprised about that.
What is your kissing pet peeve? Don't know.
Do you think you're a good kisser? I expect some people would be pleased and some not, as with everything else in the world. I seem generally to have the effect I want.