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My sister and I went out with family friends last week* to catch a band at one of the local pubs, the slightly unusual element being that it was at the local biker bar (Satan's Slaves, County Durham Chapter). I did wonder if the band ('One-oh-One, I think) would be any good, but they opened with All The Small Things, then segued into London Calling, followed by No More Heroes, and I'd basically found my ideal playlist - I did think at one point 'All this needs to be perfect is Swords of a Thousand Men', and it cropped up shortly afterwards.

There's something slightly incongruous about having a bunch of bikers in denim and leathers warning you as you leave to "Be careful on these steps now, they're really slippy. Hope you had a good time, this rainy weather's horrible, isn't it?'

My sister was also out the day before at a Lourdes fundraiser at a church-hall over in Darlington - pie, peas, and 'Bongo-Bingo'. Proper Bongo-Bingo is apparently a raucous franchise version of bingo with lots of party games, silly prizes and dancing on tables, but this was the Catholic version, so they missed out the dancing on tables. The compere/bingo caller, sitting next to a life-sized cut-out of Pope Leo, was moonlighting from his day-job as Head of RE at the local Catholic comprehensive, and pointed out any complaints should go to the Dean (senior priest, sitting on my sister's table).

Sample bingo call: 'Thirty-Three - Nailed to a Tree' (OMG, you can't say that!)

"We have bingo dabbers for sale if you need them - a pound to Catholics, four pounds to Protestants"!

"Hands up if you're a teacher?", followed by  disappointed look + <*Teacherly voice /*> "It's your own time you're wasting".

Trying to jolly everyone up "This is about as lively as the Lourdes fund-raiser at St Johns!"**

First prize dished out was a Mary fancy dress costume, other prizes included the life-sized cut-out of Pope Leo.

* I wrote this the next day, but accidentally lost the complete post just short of posting and didn't have the energy to re-write it, but it restored itself when I accidentally went into message creation just now.

** The next Catholic comprehensive over, the one I went to.

Read-in-Progress Wednesday

Feb. 19th, 2026 12:17 am
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Feb. 18th, 2026 07:32 am
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Elizabeth Breunig, who recently wrote a very moving piece in the Atlantic about what measles can do to a child, and then later admitted she made up a story about a child instead, of, I don't know, actually going to out to interview or report about real people, like an actual journalist would do. 

Hasan Piker, on his trip to China: “I have Chinese relatives … and I talked to my Chinese friends all the time about this sort of stuff, where the attitude is as long as you keep your head down, you don’t say certain things, it’s broadly understood that the government has your back,” Piker said.

Meanwhile, in Australia, Sydney riders for delivery service HungryPanda, who have been considering protesting or refusing to work, say police in China have been making threats and putting pressure on their families back home.

Emily Oster - Too bad I didn't save the screenshots or rabbitholes I went down, but I remember basically that she advocated for schools re-opening because she couldn't stand having her kids at home all the time, and basically used data from areas that did not have high incidences of COVID *yet* to do that. The other one was her article in the Atlantic where she said a kid who was unvaccinated for COVID was safe around other people, and the next week reading about a family that lost their kid to COVID because they read that damn article and thought it was safe to go on vacation. 

Amy Chua and her husband Jed Rubenfeld have a lot to answer for - inflicting JD Vance and Brett Kavanaugh on us, first of all. They should have been banished after publishing a book about how some groups are just better than others but also suck, and instead of telling them they were being racist and stupid, they were instead praised as being "provocative" and "daring". 


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Feb. 18th, 2026 09:36 am
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Unhallowed by Jordan L. Hawk is free on kobo through the 23rd!

Crow Bath

Feb. 18th, 2026 02:26 pm
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The sun came out and everyone was enjoying it so much after more than a week of clouds and snowfall. This crow was taking a very energetic bath - look how far the water droplets are flying all around him!

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Only witches hunt demons, all witches are women, and Uroro cannot be defeated by any woman. Uroro feels entirely safe, right until the world's first male witch defeats him.

Ichi the Witch, volume 1 by Osamu NIchi & Shiro Usazaki (Translated by Adrienne Beck)
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2026/023: Universality — Natasha Brown

What allowed some people to ‘make it’ while others faded away, as Hannah herself almost had? She knew it wasn’t a matter of hard work; she couldn’t have tried any harder than she did those last few years. Luck was a possible answer, but it seemed too callously random. Increasingly, Hannah felt another, truer word burning in her throat: class. The invisible privilege that everyone tried to pretend didn’t exist, but – it did. Hannah knew it did. She recognised it, and saw its grubby stains all over her own life. [p. 63]

A short novel about class, truth and culture wars. Read more... )

In the mail

Feb. 18th, 2026 01:18 am
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The person taking care of my house during this adventure sends me my mail once a week. I'd seen the packet from a couple weeks ago but put it aside knowing there was a bunch of stuff in it I actually wanted to look at.

Lo and behold: a notice dated 1/15 that the insurance company required more information from the surgeon before authorizing my hip replacement surgery. Note: said surgery was scheduled for the 23rd.

Also a note - the date of which I didn't notice - that declined the authorization for the replacement saying it wasn't medically necessary because it didn't meet several of the 9 or 10 criteria - ALL of which must be met to make it medically necessary - that were listed. And also that the hospital stay wasn't authorized because it could be done as outpatient or with a 23 hour stay as there were no comorbidities provided that would lead to the authorization of the stay.

Interestingly, there was *also* a note from the insurance company authorizing my stay at the rehab hospital for my non-medically necessary hip replacement.

Now first off: I *did* ask, repeatedly, if we'd gotten the pre-auth for the surgery and was assured we did not require one. Sounded very odd to me so I asked if we'd gotten the pre-auth for the hospital stay. Was told that's up to the nurse navigators (the ones I was not put in touch with until way too little time before the surgery). So I asked them if we'd gotten the pre-authorization for surgery and hospital stay.... which got the administrative nurse saying it was a good thing I asked because my surgery had been scheduled incorrectly and they were in the process of fixing it.

Secondly, I very specifically had expressed concern that the x-rays they took did not have a detailed report about the level of osteoarthritis, etc., as well as that my ADLs were radically affected by my hip issues (the notes said they were not affected, I wrote to them after the pre-op consult and said, "There's an error. Please fix." and they said, "There's no error."). Guess what two of the reasons for the declined authorization were?

Thirdly, if he proceeded with the surgery without getting the necessary pre-authorization AFTER I REPEATEDLY asked if the date had to move again because of a possible pre-auth issue (and after I reminded them that I DON'T LIVE HERE so, if it had to get delayed again, my stay here would be longer and cost lots of money) and I get a bill from the hospital? I'm sending it to his office SO fast and saying, "This one is on you; I raised a stack of flags ahead of time."

All that said, recovery seems to be going well. My rollator is too tall so I ordered one that has handles that can be set lower - but the one that arrived has a seat that doesn't lock down so it's unusable. Likely buying a new one before this one goes back. Which is unfortunate as I got it direct from the manufacture's "at home" site and it was priced way more affordably than from third party vendors... but I want it in hand so I can practice prior to the PT eval. Which was postponed because it was pouring and powerchair plus rain is no bueno. Thankfully, "tomorrow" (it's after midnight; it's technically today but I have not yet been to sleep and awakened again) it's going to be clear so I can get the sutures out and Friday it's going to be clear so I can get new labwork and see Dr. Hematology. Thank the Universe.

The next challenge is going to be getting PT to understand there is so much more to rehab than my hip, to figure out what physiatrist to see so I can get VERY long-overdue thoracic images taken, and then figure out what's next. Because, right now, research shows that it might take as long to recondition everything that has failed on my body (hip is probably 25 percent of the issues; no, Rehab people, it was NOT my hip that caused me to have issues with stairs!) as it did to decondition. Which means 7 or so years. Hip replacement is not the magic wand everyone said it would be. I knew that, even as I hoped otherwise. But unless my stamina comes back way faster than I think it will, and my ability to manage a rollator and so on over distance increases super significantly, powerchairs are not leaving my life any time soon. So yeah, that's another insurance hurdle.

To say nothing of the current reimbursement hurdles and so on. Fun times ahead. Onwards.

get到了吗?

Feb. 18th, 2026 06:04 pm
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So it’s entrance exam time, and all the ninth-graders have Red Books (collections of past exam questions for practice, which have red covers). At the junior high school attended by some of the kids from the Saturday juku, it is apparently a thing to write each other encouraging messages on the Red Book covers, like a yearbook in advance. Most of these are very sweet. I was looking at Sakura’s while she worked her way through a practice test, noticing that one long and enthusiastic message was signed with a boy’s name and included 사랑해 at the end. “Sakura, did you know this kid is confessing to you?” “Oh, sure. He said I could rub it out if I wasn’t interested.” Since she left it there, I’m curious to know whether Yusuke-kun will have some good news after exams are over… (I still don’t know why Japanese teenagers are using Korean to say “I love you” to each other, but I think it’s another fad. Very cute regardless.)

I noticed that both Japanese and Chinese have adopted the English word “get,” but in different senses, both legit in English. Japanese uses it to mean “acquire,” usually but not always in the physical sense (Y will occasionally text me to say 苺ゲット, ichigo get, meaning he’s laid his hands on some of the hometown strawberries the supermarkets don’t sell here; I might text him back to say Kuro-chan get, meaning that I ran into Kuro-chan the cat who deigned to let me do some stroking). Chinese, on the other hand, uses it to mean “understand, empathize with, grok,” usually with the completion-complement as in “get到.” (Baidu offers sample usages as in 突然get到, to understand all at once, 永远get不到, an eternal lack of understanding, and 被get到, he gets me etc.) (Japanese also doubles the final consonant while Chinese pretty much swallows it, but that’s a thing the two languages will be 永远get不到 about each other.)

Courtesy of the farmboys I have learned that Winnie the Pooh in Chinese is 小熊维尼, Weini the Little Bear, and Tigger is 跳跳虎, bounce-bounce-tiger. (Also I did not expect to find out while looking this up that Winnie the Pooh is quasi-banned in China for use in political satire? Surprised that the farmboys were allowed to reminisce happily on camera about their favorite characters, also including 屹耳 the donkey.)

I’ve been watching little snatches of the Winter Olympics on TV while I do other things; I like all the flying events, ski jump most of all, although I can’t imagine how anyone ever makes it to Olympic level without breaking themselves into little pieces along the way. Along with everyone else in Japan I was very happy to see Rikuryu (Miura Riku and Kihara Ryuichi) win a gold in pairs skating, coming back from fifth place after their short program. Very touching and amusing that Kihara, nine years older than his partner and three times her size, is the one who bursts into tears on the spot (happy or sad) while little tiny Miura keeps her cool and comforts him.

Reading a new book by Yang Shuangzi (author of Taiwan Travelogue) called The People at No. 1 Siwei Street or words to that effect; the edition I have is a Japanese translation (also by Miura Yuko), I don’t know if there is an English version and I can’t get my hands on the Chinese original. I’m only about a third in but it is very fun, modern-era but with callbacks to the colonial period, about four young women renting rooms in an old Japanese-style house (and falling in love with each other along the way, I think, will keep you posted). Maybe I should trouble A-Pei to go out to a bookstore and send me everything by Yang Shuangzi she can lay hands on.

A new favorite and an old one: Schumann Six Canonical Studies, arranged by Debussy for two pianos, one of his love letters to Bach. Why isn’t there an orchestration of this? (I have found some chamber-music versions, but it’s not the same. Also the Pergolesi Stabat Mater, a version with soprano and countertenor that I wasn’t familiar with (and just to show that poor short-lived Pergolesi had a range, my favorite aria from his comic opera).

Y and I went up to the outdoor track one station over this morning to run for a while. He has very mild asthma and prefers to start and stop—“or I could just run slower?” “Sweetheart, you know what it’s called if you’re running slower than me? Walking.” I do have some staying power, however, and today I got through twenty laps of the little track without stopping for a break, so about 6K if my arithmetic is right. We were entertained along the way by an invasion of hiyoko-chan from the nearby nursery school, little knee-high kids in bright yellow hats, running and somersaulting and in one case meandering along hand in hand like it was a romantic date opportunity, adorable. (Their teachers wear signs on their coats saying “No photography please” in three languages, so I can’t record it for you.)

Photos: Flowers, a very patient dog outside the supermarket, an alarming bakery sign (I was good, I didn’t go up and tell them about it), actual snow on my balcony plants (a once-a-year occurrence if that), and somebody’s paper art on their doorstep, with a sign saying “Help yuorself” [sic]. I took a little tiny origami star.



Be safe and well.

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Feb. 18th, 2026 08:19 am
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We have started watching films with father-in-law.

Certain criteria: they can't be too long (he has very firm opinions about films which are over two hours), must be brightly light so he has a chance of seeing something on the screen, cannot be subtitled for obvious reasons, and have to be dialogue-heavy.

Father-in-law is a good person to watch films with, bit of a film bugg with eclectic & wide-ranging tastes. In the past he's been my go-to person for arthouse films, and we may try that again, but not just yet.

Films at home work because we can pause when something needs the extra explainy. Father-in-law has tried audio-descriptions previously and disliked them intensely ("they explain the bits I don't need explained") so we'll not do that again.

Films we've seen so far:

  • Clueless (we were talking about Jane Austen adaptions and this is the best one)
  • Galaxy Quest (it's the best Star Trek film, and Bryan has never seen it)
  • Legally Blonde I (one of H's favourite films. Bryan enjoyed it, but now wants a rest from college / high-school films)
  • Wake Up Dead Man (I hadn't seen it. This worked well - lots of talking, and Daniel Craig having fun)
  • Gun Crazy (1950s 'Bonnie & Clyde' noir. Bryan suggested this one when we were talking about romantic Valentine movies)

I'd love to show him The Menu because he'd really enjoy the comedy horror piss-take of celebrity restaurant scene, but a lot of the action takes place in the dark as a murderous chef chases people around a tiny island so I think that's out.

On my list for future watching:

  • Conclave
  • Bringing Up Baby
  • Gosford Park
  • Spirited Away (he saw My Neighbor Totoro with me last year & loved it)

Suggestions welcome.

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Astute readers with excellent memory (or better than mine anyway XD) may remember when I lost my shit over Wind Breaker's volume 22 back in June. I basically immediately started writing this fic afterwards, which is just That Scene written from different point of views and every character individually losing it, just like I did... Lol. I'm a bit sick of trying to find an ending that is The Best Possible Ever so now that I have one that's probably good enough, let's go with it. Especially since that polyship doesn't have a ton of fic for it either, so it's nice to add one more either way.

On the plus side of going back to this story then dropping it again, the first chapters are decently edited already 😆



Acting on instinct | Wind Breaker | Sakura/Nirei/Suou/Kiryuu/Tsugeura | 800~ words (WIP, 1/5) | rated T

Summary: Something shifted for them all in that moment at Kiryuu's house. They all felt it. But Kiryuu was missing for it, so they can't do anything about it.

Not yet.


Read it on Dreamwidth or on AO3.

The Shots You Take by Rachel Reid

Feb. 18th, 2026 07:00 am
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The Shots You Take

by Rachel Reid
March 4, 2025 · Carina Adores
Contemporary Romance

I’m not even going to pretend that I picked this book up by chance. I had meant to read it last year when it came out, but didn’t. I don’t know why. I don’t have a good reason. Post-Heated Rivalry TV show obsession, I remembered I had this novel waiting for me on my Kindle. I started it last night when I got in bed. I read it while I was pumping milk in the middle of the night. I read it when I woke up at 4am because it was hot already. I read it through my work day, ignoring the furious pings from my work computer. I just finished it now. It’s 11:35 and I’ve sent one work-related email today. Otherwise I have been reading. Such is the power of it.

Adam and Riley both played professional hockey for a Toronto team. They were best friends with benefits, but Adam always shied away from them being more. Adam married a woman and had kids. Riley moved to another hockey team and went decidedly off the rails thanks to a problem with alcohol and an undiagnosed mental illness. Riley left professional hockey behind and moved home to his small town in Nova Scotia. Adam carried on playing for Toronto. When the book opens they haven’t spoken to each other in 12 years. But have they been in love with each other the whole time? YOU BETCHA!

Second chance romance is tough to get right because the reason that it didn’t work out needs to balance with the love that pushes them back together. For the first 50% Riley is mad at Adam and he needs to be. Through his cowardice (not saying “I love you” back even though he felt it, etc.), Adam really let Riley down, but it was Riley who ultimately severed ties with Adam (to save his sanity). So both have some blame but it is Adam that has to do the grovelling. And he grovels beautifully.

The character development for both is great! In the intervening years, Riley has worked hard to reach stability, but growth rockets for both of them when they’re in each other’s lives again. Adam has to learn to be an out gay man and Riley has to learn to trust again.

A slightly spoilery note about sexuality

Incidentally, while Adam spends a decade married to a woman and has two children with her, when he does decide to speak freely about his sexuality, he describes himself as gay.

These are giant emotions and as a reader, those emotions put me through a workout, in a good way.

Everything about their history and their past and present is a mess. The particular nature of the mess is revealed in bits and pieces as you read and you only have the full picture of the breakdown in their relationship after the halfway point, so I won’t go into specifics here.

Given how badly messed up things were between them at the end and how much ground they have to cover, is there a third act break up?

Show Spoiler

No! Instead there is a steady, inexorable, exhilarating build of emotion until they confess their endless love for each other. It’s glorious!

The sex is hot and in keeping with the kind of breathless besottedness they both feel. The way they love and explore each other’s bodies, bodies that have changed and not changed over the twenty-odd years since they first had sex, well, it’s mesmerizing.

There is so much emotion packed into this book. Big ones (the size of their love is extraordinary), overwhelming ones (predominantly around Adam getting to grips with his sexuality), messy ones (“you hurt me and I still love you and I want you to go away but I also want you to stay”). All of them!

And all of them were handled with such care. As a reader I felt safe letting my own emotions run with the story, knowing that they would be managed capably and my heart would glow by the end of it. And it did!

If you’re looking for a book that packs an emotional punch but is going to have you beaming with your whole body by the end, then this is the one for you. I heartily recommend it to the Bitchery.

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I made English muffins ("or, as they say in the UK, muffins") yesterday, so I can make more frozen breakfast sammiches. Today I decided to have a proper Eggs Halifax, which is like a Benedict but with smoked salmon instead of back bacon. In the event the hollandaise broke. This has been the usual fate of my attempts at hollandaise for the last N years. It's frustrating because it -used- to work. Still tasted okay but the texture was way off.

Since making tricky food was going so well I decided to turn the egg whites from the hollandaise into divinity. (If you're not from the South, divinity is the answer to the question "what if meringues were candy?" It is somewhat nougat-like and somewhat fluffy and usually involves pecans, though I haven't had much in the way of pecans since the death of my great-uncle who had a pecan orchard.) This involves cooking a bunch of sugar to hard-ball / 260F and then adding it into a running mixer with whipped egg whites. After an hour my sugar was stubbornly refusing to go over 245F. I turned up the heat a little more and the sugar boiled over. Thankfully I grabbed the pot so it did not boil over onto the burner, just onto the stove top, but while I was salvaging that the sugar crystallized. I swore and tried again: added more water and some additional sugar and stuck it back on the burner to re-dissolve and re-cook. This time careful additions of heat got it up to 250F and more threatened boiling over, so I called it good and poured it into the mixer. Adding injury to insult: while scraping the last quarter or so of the sugar into the mixer I managed to splash some of it onto my hand. Molten sugar is a nasty business: it glues itself to your skin and keeps burning. Thankfully my mixer is right next to the sink. No permanent damage done but I ended up with several blisters, some of which had the tops ripped off when I tried to remove the sugar.

I used to hate and avoid dealing with candy-making / molten sugar. Now I seem to have reached a point where it is my nemesis, and I will conquer it or get really annoyed and minorly scorched trying. Anyway, the divinity is in its pan and setting; should be edible sometime tomorrow.



Twenty-seven and a half boxes of books (down one and a half from last time), and what looks to be about twenty-five boxes of games (down three or so from last time). Plus one box of CDs and two-plus of DVDs. My obsession with the Arrowverse means that DVDs no longer fit neatly into two boxes. Oh well.

Now to pack up all the random miscellaneous stuff that doesn't need to be out while the place is on the market, which will take probably less than ten boxes and probably twice the time. At least I have plenty of time: my preferred movers aren't available until early-mid March.

Daily Happiness

Feb. 17th, 2026 07:20 pm
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1. I got my hair cut this morning. Nice to get that out of the way before my trip.

2. I'm all packed for tomorrow except for a few last things I can't pack until the morning. Hopefully I can get to sleep with no issue and early enough, because I have my alarm set for four tomorrow. D:

3. The rain was much better today. It rained a little here and there, but mostly was dry, and none of the times it was raining interfered with anything I was doing.

4. Gemma's helping pack.

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